A newlywed mourning the death of her
husband said she feels like she's 'jinxed' after he died from the same
heart condition that previously killed her boyfriend.
Karen
Matthews, 31, from Bristol, found her husband Ryan, 36, face down on
the sofa after she left him playing a computer game while she had a
shower.
He had
suffered a catastrophic heart attack as a result of left ventricular
hypertrophy - an enlargement of the muscle tissue that makes up the wall
of the heart's main pumping chamber.
A fit and healthy newly-wed husband Ryan
Matthews (pictured on his wedding day) suddenly died as he played the
computer game, Call of Duty. Incredibly Ryan Matthews, 36, was struck
down by the same heart condition that killed a boyfriend of his wife,
Karen (pictured), nine years previously
The same condition had claimed the life of Karen's previous long-term boyfriend, footballer James Gray, 24. He had been playing in a Somerset FA Challenge Cup match in Bath when he suddenly collapsed in 2003.
Karen said: 'I think I must be the unluckiest woman alive. I definitely feel like I am jinxed. I
am still living in disbelief. This does not seem like my life. it just
seems crazy. It seems ridiculous that it could happen twice.'
Karen, a senior meetings and events co-ordinator at The Bristol Hotel, had been dating James for for six years and had moved with him a week before he died.
'I must be the unluckiest woman alive... It seems ridiculous that it could happen twice'
A year later she then met Ryan, a popular cyclist described as a 'real gentle giant who liked to keep fit' by his friends.
After
tying the knot in August, Karen and Ryan had been married for less than
four months before his life was tragically cut short.
Like James, he was fit and healthy but in a repeat of the previous tragedy, he died suddenly after suffering a heart seizure.
Karen described the horror she felt at finding him collapsed in their living room.
She
said: 'That night he was fine and was playing on his Xbox. He had eaten
his and most of my dinner because he was hungry. I got in a bath at
around 8.30pm and after I finished, I shouted to say the bathroom was
free.
'I think I must be the unluckiest woman
alive. I
am still living in disbelief. This does not seem like my life. It seems
ridiculous that it could happen twice,' said Ms Matthews ( pictured)
'I got no response so just thought he was engrossed in his game. I went downstairs and he was face down on the sofa. He was just lifeless and I rang 999 and was hysterical.'
Karen
ran to her neighbours for help but despite their, and then paramedics,
attempts to revive him, he was declared dead at the scene.
'The
ambulance service came and they tried to resuscitate him but in my
heart I knew he was gone, but they were amazing and just kept on trying
to save him,' Karen said.
The
death has shocked Ryan’s many friends and family who knew him as a fit
and healthy young man, who as a broadband engineer for Virgin Media.
'He would go to the gym three or four
times a week and would go bike riding,' said Karen. 'He was very fit
and healthy and worked very hard so none of it makes any sense. I miss him terribly, the house is so quiet.'
Left ventricular hypertrophy is an enlargement of the heart that can develop in response to factors such as high blood pressure.
In Ryan's memory, his friends and family now hope to raise £8,000 for the British Heart Foundation with a sponsored Weymouth to Bristol bike ride.
For more information on the Ride for Ryan, visit
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