A dying 23-year-old mother married
her partner in a hospital chapel after GPs repeatedly failed to spot
that she was suffering from cancer.
Iveta
Kelesova, from Brixton in south London, married Mikulas Keles, 24, at
the Royal Marsden Hospital’s chapel in May. She died just days later.
The couple’s two-year-old daughter, Victoria, acted as a bridesmaid.
Iveta Kelesova, 23, married Mikulas Keles, 24,
at the Royal Marsden Hospital's chapel in May. She died just days later
from cancer which was so advanced that doctors could not work out where
it originated
Mrs Kelesova first visited her
doctor at the end of last summer suffering from a persistent cough,
night sweats, and pains in her limbs.
During
the following six months she returned to her doctor more than ten times
to ask for help but her husband said that she was always told that she
was healthy, and that there was nothing wrong with her.
Mrs Kelesova used the female version of her husband's surname, Keles.
Mr Keles said: ‘Iveta went to the
doctor many times and he only joked “She is a healthy woman, she will
never be strong like you though”, but it wasn’t right. I knew she was
very ill.’
Eventually, Mrs Kelesova developed dizziness and breathlessness and lost one and a half stone.
She
was finally referred to the Accident and Emergency department at King’s
College Hospital, in Denmark Hill, south London, on March 28 this year.
Mrs Kelesova is pictured with the couple's daughter, Victoria, shortly before she fell ill
Mrs Kelesova (pictured with her husband and
their daughter, Victoria, two) visited her doctor repeatedly for six
months suffering from night sweats, pain, and a persistent cough but was
told she was healthy
At the hospital she was diagnosed with
adenocarcinoma – a cancer originating in the glandular tissue - which
was so advanced that doctors were unable to establish where it
originated.
By the time she was diagnosed it had spread to her bones and lymph nodes and was incurable.
She was transferred to the Royal Marsden Hospital, in Sutton, for treatment.
Mr
Keles said: ‘It was a big shock. Suddenly they said she had cancer and
was very sick and we that we had to go to another hospital.
‘Iveta was in so much pain. How can my doctor have seen her like that and say she was healthy?’
Knowing
that she did not have long to live, the couple decided to marry in the
hospital’s chapel. The wedding took place on May 2.
Mrs Kelesova was eventually diagnosed with
adenocarcinoma - a cancer originating in the glandular tissue - when she
was referred to the A&E at King's College Hospital in south London
Speaking about the wedding, Mr Keles said:
'Iveta looked beautiful but very tired and I was worried she would close
her eyes and go at any time'
Mr Keles said: ‘It was so hard. Everyone was trying to smile but it was a sad occasion really.
‘Iveta looked beautiful but very tired and I was worried she would close her eyes and go at any time.’
Mrs Kelesova died on May 15.
Her
husband said: ‘It is so hard. Iveta used to look after [our daughter]
Victoria and I would work to support them as well as my mother and
father who are unwell.
‘Now I have to look after Victoria but we still need money and there are still bills to pay.
‘Victoria is cheeky and naughty and she reminds me of Iveta very much. She has a good spirit.’
Mr Keles says that Victoria cries every time she
sees a picture of her mother and that she did not like seeing her in
hospital. He says that she is very cheeky and reminds him of his wife
When Mrs Kelesova was in hospital Mr Keles
stayed by her bedside every day and every night sleeping in a chair. He
says that he held her hand to make her feel safe
He added: ‘Victoria cries every time she sees a picture of Iveta, which breaks my heart.
‘She
didn’t like it in the hospital at all and was sad seeing her mum with
all the wires. She understands that Iveta has gone up to heaven but she
misses her very much.
‘In
the hospital I stayed next to Iveta every day and night. I slept in the
chair next to her bed with my hand on hers to make her happy, keep her
safe.’
The couple, who
are originally from Slovakia, have been supported by CLIC Sargent which
is the UK’s leading cancer charity for children, young people, and their
families.
Dara de Burca,
CLIC Sargent Director of Services, said: 'Clearly, this is a tragic
case. But unfortunately, we frequently hear from young people that they
made repeated visits to their GP over weeks or months before being
diagnosed.
'Cancer in young people is rare, so it’s often difficult for GPs to recognise the symptoms in patients.
'On
average, a GP will see only one case in their career. Support for GPs
must be improved – key to this is providing them with better information
and resources so they can spot these rare cases. Getting young patients
diagnosed earlier would save lives.'
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